10 signs that he's cheating.

If you think your guy is pulling some shady shit, chances are he is. Trust your guts but when in doubt, see if he's indulging in any of these shenanigans.

1. He tells u he isn't ready to be in an early relationship with u

~ Yet he still talks to u, ask u out, text u loving and sweet messages and seems like he lead u to the serious way. Being a girl it has always been a norm thing when a guy seems to be really romantic and sweet towards u even despite knowing his "sweet talk mothafucking" words, u still wana stay. U just go with it taking the risk because u wanted the attention and u might just think he'll change and realize tat u are "the one" . U felt like u had fallen hard and had been hypnotize  with his words and blinded by his acts.

2. He takes his phone even to the bathroom

~ If he start to have "weird" password lock on his mobile and keep changing the password often, there are chance of him keeping a dark/dirty secrets behind u that u are not aware yet. He will start putting his hp on silent mode randomly  especially when he is with u also he will keep his mobile to himself or hide it (eg: in his pocket,bag) just as long as u wont be able to see it because he just dont want u to do the "routine checks." Logically, when u don't see it u wont question much about his chat conversations. Basically he takes his phone with him everywhere he goes. :)

3.He is a shitty communicator and takes forever to text u back.

~ U will often see him online on whatsapp but yet reply to your text late. He would be telling u that he wants an early night sleep, tats just to escape from calling u. Tats also could be chance that he is outside and not telling u about it but giving u an excuse that he is sleepy and wanted an early night. Even if he calls or text u it would be a very quick and short one. 

4. He has more friends tat are girls than u do.

~ U will suddenly realize tat his circles of friends are expanding. And wats best, u are not aware of it at all

5. He always has reasons why u can't meet up with him.

~ He'll act shady towards u, giving u many excuses or even fix on only specific days tat he can meet u up. And even during days tat he is free (like a last min ended work early or off day or plan cancel) he is still not meeting u and strictly stick to the days tat he had fix to meet with u. He'll tell u heis tired he need his sleep etc but end up u found out he is out meeting some other friends. 

6. U haven't met his family

~ Ahhh tats because he is not offering to bring u to his family. He just dun wish his family to know about it because he know tat he is not taking u for real. 

7. Secret Social media.

~ U found out about his secret activities in other social media accounts. He will claimed tat he only have FB/IG but tats not the only social media platform tat he is using. U'll found out more about some other chatting apps platform. It could also be possible tat he have a duplicate accounts and u are not in his friend list.

8. Change of behavior 

~ His behavior is causing a gut feeling in u tat something isn't right. U pay less attention on ur instincts and ignoring it because u are letting urself be blinded by the truth. Even when ur friends are telling and giving their advice to quit, yet u still let him destroy u in silence. U tend to trust tat he would change if u are being patient but u know tat the results dun prove u tat way. 

9. Frequent fights.

~ He would picks fights with u so tat u would get mad and he will have all the reasons to ignore u after tat. Also a reason to storm out of the house thus the opportunity to me a lover. Tats the way to escape and going out with someone else to cheat on u behind ur back. And expected, he would vent out all about ur shits to his lover giving her the bad idea of u. And he would randomly asked about ur relationship ending whenever u argue or fight. 

10. The Finale.

~ He will finally drop the bom on u. He will tell u about ending the relationship and tat he wasn't the best for u and he needed the time to heal (when he was the one hurting u all along) And wen u agree to give him the space and time, not long after u found out he is already with someone else. 

Moving on

Ladies, its not easy to move on but nobody said its hard either, its mind over matter. Always believe ur instincts and gut feelings because they dun lie. Save urself for the right person, dun waste and invest ur time for a worthless jerks. Start loving urself more than anyone would. If u love urself more, eventually god will sent u the right person to love and care for u. 
I've met my Mr Right because I've learnt to live life the better way
cos i know what's worth having. :)

-Kiki Hamdan-

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